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There is a reason for you…
By Ton Pascal
Did you ever stop to think about all the people that come into your life?
In our ever-evolving society, even the most timid, reserved or reclusive person has several people contacting and connecting with him/her every day. Whether it is telephone, Internet, fax, or a direct contact, people are coming into your life. And there is a reason for it and it is not at all by sheer coincidence.
There is an old prayer on the subject of accepting people that come into your life for a reason, a season and lifetime, which I find very beautiful and useful but my main point is the reason itself: You wished it!
A good exercise is to start your day with positive affirmations. Here is a link on How to Use Positive Affirmations.
Someone is in your life because you have expressed aloud or just unconsciously to yourself a need or a wish. And le-voila you sent out a message and the forces of the law of attraction will do their very best to fulfill your desires. Whatever it may be, someone will come to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you financially, physically, emotionally or spiritually. A godsend you say, and they are. There is no coincidence here; you needed and asked them to be and that is the reason they came into your life.
The law of attraction will bring everything you want into your life. The most incredible gifts are stored there for you in the warehouse of the universe’s vast supply. But be careful what you wish for because it holds true to the opposite and negative side as well. You could see your most dreaded nightmares come to life. The unconscious perception you have of yourself is the guide and the road map which those forces will match up and populate your life with people that are, as you perceive yourself. What you think, see, or need, the forces will pair you with. Consciously you may not think like that, but alone with yourself that is where the mask drops and your powerful self goes to work.
When you feel good and positive about yourself, the planet or your community succeeds, and people follow you. Why? The path of your positive energy is open; an unobstructed connection to all the other entities in the universe that are similar to you.
On the other side of the coin, when you are angry with yourself, feeling down, self-esteem at the bottom of your cup, and thinking that you are no good, weak, and need a strong lover to kick your ass out of inertia, you just sent a message through the immense and powerful network of cosmic energy that you are looking for an abusive, overbearing, even violent lover to beat you up!
It starts and ends with you. What do you think of yourself? This cosmic force/divine spirit/light is not there to judge or suggest a different path for you. It accepts your thoughts and wishes as law. It is a YES force that doesn’t understand or accept NO.
How you evolve and change will also affect peoples’ connection to you. Don’t ever think or attempt to change someone, it is a waste of energy. It is only when you change yourself that you also change others and the world. Take a little time by yourself and take a closer look at the people that have come in and dropped out of your life and the ones still around. Some may have died, others may have lasted only a day but they all contributed something. A number of them may have even hurt your feelings, body or a bank account. The reasons are all there: a lesson that you needed to learn, a fleeting smile that made your day and gave you the confidence to present your pet project, a laugh that brought you joy, or the strength the unconditional love you feel when you are near them gives you.
Once you understand and accept this concept you’ll see your world quite differently.
The sooner you learn how to identify the reason you will enjoy your acquaintances, friends, lovers and family to the fullest, and will no longer get angry or be bothered by the annoying mindless contacts which you thought you never asked for. You have learned how to build the emotional foundation for positive living! You can now move on with your journey and be the teacher, support and friend other positive people want so much to connect with.
Have a great journey.
Ton Pascal
Dream Your Life Positively is available in paperback on Amazon.com. Click here to order. Labels: "Law of Attraction", coincidencde, Reason, season

Here it is: Dream Your Life Positively is now available in hadcopy. The Law of Attraction and the Science of Getting Rich. by Ton Pascal.What is this Law of Attraction? You can check Carl Jung’s classic Memories, Dreams, Reflections for his view, but most contemporary psychologists agree that this magnificent power is transmuted into small things; day-to-day behavior, manners, the choices that we make in the ordinariness of daily human life. This substance, force, or power is very likely a part, a very small part, of a larger enigma, inscrutable as it ever was. The psycho-chemical organization of the simplest cell is far beyond our capacity to understand, even at our most advanced scientific labs. How it is made, where it comes from, I will leave for someone else to answer. What I know as a belief and from my own experiences is that this power exists and it is within you. “We are not human beings going through a temporary spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings going through a temporary human experience.”I received this quote from a friend who didn’t know where it comes from either, but I feel that it illustrate so well the point I try to make on Dream Your Life Positively. Each one of us have a point of view, an easier way to better his life. And it differs from person to person. If you consider the time it took for this universe to form, this planet to spring up life, and men’s precarious and recent evolution, our life is very short. My formula is very simple: Think positively, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile. In my book Dream Your Life Positively I give exercises on how to guide your mind into positive thoughts, thus preparing you to accomplish your goals successfully. Napoleon Hill said, “a goal is a dream with a deadline.” Start by training your mind to send out only messages of positive energy. Do it as you take a shower, go for a walk or go to work, while you take a break or while you're busy doing a task! It will strengthen your daily self-improvement and will bring a new joy and sense to your life. You will see the results immediately afterwards. Acknowledge them, give yourself a pat in the back; yes, I am good. Yes, I am successful. But, be careful of what you think about! for example, have you thoughts ever begun with the following phrases: I don’t understand… I don't want... I don’t like… I hate my... or this… I can’t figure out … I’m stressed about… I’m worried that… I should be able to… but I can’t… The Law of Attraction brings about what you focus on even if it is not what you want. Get it? What you show outwardly is what you are inside. You want to be happy! You want to be successful! You want to be wealthy! There is nothing religious about it, and no religion that is good for you should tell you that you cannot have it all. You are stardust. You are a fragment of God. You hold the answer, and it has always been with you. If you understand this principle, you know how to make the law of attraction work to support you rather than to act against you. If you have Dream Your Life Positively continue doing the positive affirmations from exercise 2 on page 65. Bob Proctor give the same advice in The Science of Getting Rich seminars. What is the Science of Getting Rich about? Well in the words of Wallace D. Wattles, "The ownership of money and property comes as a result of doing things in a certain way. Those who do things in this certain way, whether on purpose or accidentally, get rich. Those who do not do things in this certain way, no matter how hard they work or how able they are, remain poor. It is a natural law that like causes always produce like effects. Therefore, any man or woman who learns to do things in this certain way will infallibly get rich." The Science of Getting Rich Seminar is all about teaching how to do things in this "certain" way to create wealth. Ton Pascal You can check Bob Proctor's program by going to our site’s link tab and clicking on the banner- 7 Free Lessons from the teachers of “The Secret.” Labels: "Getting Rich", "Law of Attraction", Dreams
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